Ah, that joyful age when your kid all of a sudden hates you and wants to be as far away from you as humanly possible. It's not always so bad, but when you're struggling to connect with a moody tween or teen, it feels hopeless. Sears doesn't recommend switching from parent to pal, but he does encourage some attitude adjustments: "Make yourself more fun to be around. Kids at that stage of separation are fun-oriented. Find out what is their 'special something.' What do they love to do? Whether it's music or sports, try to join in, either literally or by finding related events to attend. And if they want to do something they aren't allowed to do, don't just say no. Say no, but offer up some fun alternatives."
