Going back to that idea about living in an ideal world, part of that dream life is that we all get paid to play with puppies and our mortgages are paid for in smiles. Until that day is realized, most people have to factor in their work schedules and other commitments. Be honest with yourself and your kids about big adventures and trips that they want to take, because saying "we'll see" could inadvertently get their hopes up and ruin what great work you've already done to make everyone have a great Summer. Schedule and stick to what you feel comfortable with. By planning ahead the big things, you can talk about it all Summer long, getting everyone excited to go camping in Yosemite or to visit a new baseball stadium.
