Experts Say You Should Have These 14 Things in Common With Your Partner

"It's vital that a couple shares a basic, overall picture of how they'd like for their lives to unfold financially, spiritually, lifestyle-wise, and with respect to children. When you have a plan in place, it serves as an irreplaceable 'true north' and helps clarify what each partner should be working towards daily, as well as helping the couple clarify how to make some of the tougher decisions in life," said Shlomo Zalman Bregman, a rabbi and matchmaker in New York City.