Here Are the 2020 Wedding Trends Kicking Off the New Decade of "I Dos"

"Couples are stepping out of their comfort zones to find out-of-the-box spaces that offer a unique twist to their wedding day. We're predicting that soonlyweds go the more textured route that industrial venues bring, while also seeking a space with a blank and natural canvas that can leave room for one's vision to really come to life!" — Joel Lippman, director of sales and marketing, Hutton Brickyards

"Talk about a one-stop shop! Having your wedding in one setting — ceremony, cocktail hour, and all — can really help bring down costs for you and time and energy for all of your guests." — Joel Lippman, director of sales and marketing, Hutton Brickyards

"More and more couples are not following the traditional path of first comes marriage . . . many of our couples have already started their families before they are married, and this opens the door to incorporate your kids in meaningful ways on the wedding day.

We have seen some sweet ways to incorporate kids. Some choose to present their kids with a special gift during the ceremony, such as a piece of jewelry. Some include them in their vows and give the kids a chance to say a few words as well. Floral is a great way to incorporate kids as well, so the kids can have matching but smaller versions of bouquets, boutonnieres, floral crowns, etc. If the kids are too small to walk, we have seen brides or grooms carry them in to start the ceremony. The other nice thing about including your kids in your wedding is that you can get some epic family portraits after the ceremony, so we encourage people to build a little extra time into their photography timeline for that. It makes the ceremony extra special and something the family will remember for a lifetime." — Simple Maui Wedding

"For 2020, the new family style is small plate stations. Whether it's a wedding, special event, or cocktail party, having small plates creates a more social, shared experience. The guests get a little bit of everything!" — Colleen Zielinski, executive chef of Colette's Catering

"Also trending: beautiful and grand grazing stations. They are visually a 'wow factor' and set the culinary style of what's to come." — Sarah Kuhlberg, creative director of Colette's Catering

"2020 will be a magnificent year in diamonds, and by that we mean the most stunning quality diamonds being sought. Nothing shines brighter than a D colorless diamond. The desire for not only a big diamond but the finest quality is on the rise! Couples are becoming more educated about the purchase of a diamond and the true value a fine diamond holds. 2020 will be a year of simplicity in settings featuring the most gorgeous crystal structures Earth has formed." — Kaeleigh Testwuide, founder and owner of The Diamond Reserve

"Two-tone engagement rings! What does that mean? When someone wants a yellow gold or rose gold engagement ring, it is best to make the prongs of the engagement ring in white gold; this helps the center diamond remain colorless, and the white prongs will blend in with the diamond, calling attention to the diamond floating over the colored gold band. With yellow and rose gold so popular, and the popularity of buying a high-quality diamond, this look allows the diamond to shine its brightest!" — Kaeleigh Testwuide, founder and owner of The Diamond Reserve

"Choosing a ring out of a drawer is a thing of the past. Today's couples want something with a personal touch, and advancements in 3D modeling technology have made custom jewelry more accessible than ever . . . Watch your dream ring come to life with computer models and photorealistic renderings. The results speak for themselves." — Lindsay Reinsmith, cofounder, Ada Diamonds

"Round brilliant diamonds will always rule for classic appeal, but the unique look of fancy shaped diamonds like ovals, radiant, and cushion cuts give today's brides an opportunity to show off their style and personality in their diamond shape." — Lindsay Reinsmith, cofounder, Ada Diamonds

"We find more and more brides-to-be are looking for ways to reduce the environmental impact of their big day and their ring. Lab-grown diamonds are chemically and optically identical to mined diamonds but are sustainably grown with none of the negative environmental consequences associated with conventional mining operations. Likewise, lab-grown diamonds are guaranteed to be conflict-free." — Lindsay Reinsmith, cofounder, Ada Diamonds

"It's very common for couples to design a ring together these days, and I see that becoming more of a trend in 2020. It's a fun process for couples to create an engagement ring together. Every couple is different about how they approach this situation, and that's normal because there is no such thing as traditional anymore." — Matthew Kaufmann, cofounder, JK & Co. Jewelers

"Antique cut diamonds and novelty shapes will be on the rise in 2020. Some examples of antique cut diamonds are old Europeans, hexagons, antique emerald cuts, and elongated antique cushions. Since most of the fine jewelry being worn today tends to be more delicate and daintier, we are noticing a rise in requests for more unique diamond center stones. There are hundreds of unique diamond shapes, it's refreshing to see such interest in diamonds outside of the most popular shapes." — Matthew Kaufmann, cofounder, JK & Co. Jewelers

"Cool socks and bow ties are a must for 2020. Get creative with your wedding day look, and let your accessories show off your personality." — Nathan Bellah, director of marketing at Generation Tux

"The velvet trend has been picking up for a while now, but velvet is really making waves for 2020 with its rich texture and colors. In that same vein, satin is really starting to make a comeback! Whether it's a velvet linen or satin bridesmaid dresses, these luxe fabrics can make a big statement in bold colors." — Euri Wong, lead designer at Bloominous

"There are so many options for lighting now, and it's such a fun, elegant way to add flair to your special day. You can add endless light strands to a willow tree for a fairy-tale look, hang hundreds of Edison bulbs above dining tables to tie in the rustic vibes, or even have your event's logo or monogram projected onto the dance floor!" — Marisa Ferrell, So Eventful

"The reign of the wedding cake is over . . . for the most part. I can't tell you how many couples say 'I don't care about cake.' I love offering multiple single layer cakes in various flavors, or nixing cake all together and offering small pick-up pastries in a casual buffet style. At that point in the night, you want your guests up and dancing anyway. Being able to grab a small dessert bite and head back to the dance floor is important." — Crossed Keys Estate

"I am seeing brides and grooms really having fun creating their wedding handkerchiefs. They are personalizing them with custom monograms, messages, and even their own handwriting for that extra special keepsake from the big day!" — Colleen Corcoran, owner and designer, The Handkerchief Shop

"As weddings become more about the couple's connection and less about how many friends you can invite or the biggest party you can throw, the bridal party is also getting smaller or becoming nonexistent. If there is a bridal party, it is usually one or two of the couple's closest friends or siblings rather than their entire crew. Many couples opt to not have a bridal party at all and a smaller guest count; this way, the message is that everyone in attendance is equally important to them. It also reinforces that the ceremony is about the couple, not the show or how cute the bridesmaids dresses are." — Simple Maui Wedding