20 Wedding Lessons We Learned From Friends

4. If your bridesmaids do throw you a shower, give them a clue about what you want.

Otherwise, you may end up with Danny DeVito wearing a child's Halloween costume as your last-minute stripper. Bride-to-be Phoebe wasn't exactly pleased that her big send-off into married life was an elegant tea party — she wanted “pee-pees flying about” — so Monica and Rachel scrambled to find a stripper mid-party. This was the only guy available.