5 Reasons I'm Glad I Stayed on Tinder Until It Paid Off

We all have checklists in our heads about qualities we're looking for in a partner. This checklist is your enemy. Erase it, and scrub it out of your brain. What I was really looking for was someone I enjoyed spending time with. Someone I actually wanted to see again. Someone who I wasn't forcing myself to meet for a second date because maybe "attraction is something that grows over time." Wait for the guy who makes you genuinely smile, not the one with the Rolex who doesn't ask you any questions about yourself. (Side note: It's shocking how many guys ask you zero personal questions.)