You’re in your 30s, which means you’re wise enough to know better, confident to be OK making mistakes and asking for help, and young enough to still be hip. Mentor a younger woman, whether it’s professionally or personally. This will not only empower you and make you feel good, but it will also help someone else out and assist in the healing process after divorce. It’s not unusual to feel out of focus after divorce. Helping others will help you get back that steering wheel to take your life in a new direction.