Popsugar Love Relationships How to Love With an Open Heart Women Who Do These 9 Things NEVER Get Played by Men March 19, 2016 by YourTango View On One Page Photo 1 of 9 ADVERTISEMENT () Start Slideshow Share This Link Copy ← Use Arrow Keys → 1 Avoid guys with obviously low self-esteem If he doesn't love and value himself, he probably can't love and value you in a healthy way. Find someone with high self-esteem. This is so important. Previous Next Start Slideshow RelationshipsDatingAdviceGifsMen