Popsugar Love Relationships Things That Ruin a Relationship 10 Signs You Might Be Self-Sabotaging Your Relationship April 29, 2017 by Laura Lifshitz View On One Page Photo 9 of 10 ADVERTISEMENT () Start Slideshow Share This Link Copy ← Use Arrow Keys → 9 Your work is so important, so much so that your partner is not. Your struggle to balance is killing the two of you. Previous Next Start Slideshow RelationshipsDatingAdviceRelationship Advice