If you find yourself wanting to learn about and participate in the things your partner enjoys, it could very well be because you're falling for them. It's even better when, as Allen explains, "you're both doing that with each other — appreciating what is meaningful for each other, and not judging what the thing is." Instead, "you're [simply] enjoying the experience of your partner and experiencing something that they love to do."
There's a sense of security that develops when people in a relationship feel like they can just be themselves, without fear that they'll be judged. You might find that you love your partner not despite their quirks but because of them — and that you feel valued in the same way.
