10 Relationship Red Flags to Watch Out For, According to Experts

"Purposefully ignoring your partner as a form of punishment can also be a subtler red flag," Lopez says. You might write this off as your partner being in a bad mood or pouting, but in reality, it's immature and problematic — especially if it's something that happens often. It's worth calling them out on it if you feel comfortable, but know that this is not the way to behave in a healthy relationship.