The Best Sex Gifts
13 Editor-Approved Sex Gifts — From Couples Games to Intimate Oils
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Whether you have a new flame or just want to boost the bed chem, sexy gifts can be a fun way to make the first move. Depending on what your S.O. is into, you can deliver pleasure-filled gifts that are innocuous enough to be opened in front of an audience or gifts that are intended to be unwrapped in private. Ahead, we curated a wish list that includes everything from an editor-tested sex toy to a Mulberry silk robe and a fragrant French bubble bath that's perfectly indulgent. Take control in setting the perfect mood or reimagining the way you foreplay — there is something on this list for everyone.
The 13 Best Sex Gifts
- An ultra-moisturizing gel: plusOne Long Lasting Vaginal Gel at $14, originally $18
- A water-based lubricant: Nixit Water-Based Personal Lubricant at $16
- Edible lube that comes in four flavors: Exsens Coconut Warming Massage Oil at $20
- A playful way to initiate intimacy: Why Don't We Spice It Up Game at $27
- A tingling, warming serum for foreplay: Epiphany Clit Arousal Serum at $34
- The showerhead made for pleasure: Womanizer Wave Multifunction Shower Head at $39, originally $49
- A lacy bra she'll wear on repeat: Savage X Fenty Romantic Corded Lace Unlined Underwire Bra at $40, originally $60
- French bubble bath that smells incredible: L'Occitane Lavender Foaming Bath at $42
- The best massage accessory: Kate McLeod The Sex Stone Sensual Massage Bar & Intimacy Oil at $48
- A sex toy for him that pleases you: Maude Band at $52
- A pillow to get you into position: Liberator Wedge Intimate Sex Positioning Pillow at $96
- A slippery-soft robe: Quince 100% Washable Silk Robe at $120
- A clit-sucking toy that's a guaranteed pleaser: Womanizer Next at $179, originally $229
plusOne Long Lasting Vaginal Gel ($14, originally $18)
There are plenty of phases of life where women could use a little help tackling dryness, both inside and outside of the bedroom. This moisturizing gel is meant to make you feel hydrated and more comfortable all day long thanks to powerhouse ingredients like aloe, hyaluronic acid, and coconut oil.
Nixit Water-Based Personal Lubricant ($16)
A naturally thick, nonsticky, water-based lubricant that makes everything in the bedroom . . . better. It helps reduce friction and alleviates uncomfortable dryness, creating a smooth, pleasurable experience every time.
Exsens Coconut Warming Massage Oil ($20)
If you want your lube to be as adventurous as you, may we suggest this edible formula? It comes in a variety of flavors including coconut, peach, and vanilla, and it's even been highly rated by a former contributor. You can read more in our Exsens Coconut Warming Massage Oil review.
Editor Quote: "Exsens Gourmet Oil actually tastes yummy — a feature that both you and your partner will most appreciate about this two-in-one formula. The best part, however, is that the warming effect intensifies with mouth-to-skin contact, meaning that any kiss or lick will really heat things up." — Nicole Yi, former associate fitness editor
Why Don't We Spice It Up Game ($27)
Game night will take on a new meaning with this sexy card deck that allows you to choose from three levels: mild, medium, and spicy. Start off slow with a mild card that might prompt you to answer a "would you rather" question or turn up the heat with a spicy card that could involve a blindfold.
Epiphany Clit Arousal Serum ($34)
Kick off foreplay by massaging this Clit Arousal Serum on yourself or your partner for a warm and slightly tingly sensation that slowly builds. The brand is female-founded (and tested) and editor-approved. For more details about what makes this arousal serum stand apart from the rest, dive into our Epiphany Clit Arousal Serum review.
Editor Quote: "I also really like how inconspicuous it feels. Unlike other arousal serums I've tried that have immediately felt tingly in all the wrong ways, using the Epiphany Arousal Serum feels like a slow (and gentle) roll into being more aroused. When I first used it, I squeezed it out of the tube and rubbed it on my clit, and noticed that my body didn't immediately feel anything, but after a few minutes went by, I could tell that my body reacted without feeling like it was reacting from a serum. It aided the process without being the reason for it." — Hayley Folk, PS contributor
Womanizer Wave Multifunction Shower Head ($39, originally $49)
Showerheads have a reputation for undercover masturbation, even though that's not what they're built for. Instead of getting creative with whatever hardware you have in your bathroom, swap in this design, which was made with sexy time in mind. It works as both a showerhead and a sex toy, and it's discreet enough that no one would ever guess. Get all of your questions about it answered in our comprehensive Womanizer Wave Multifunction Shower Head review.
Editor Quote: "When I first tried the Wave out, I noticed (and majorly appreciated) its different functionalities. As someone who is eco-conscious, I was worried I'd be using too much water during my masturbation sessions. But the Wave actually saves water; with EcoSmart tech, it allows users to use 60 percent less water than conventional showerheads, while still being able to make me orgasm. (A win!)" — Hayley Folk, PS contributor
Savage X Fenty Romantic Corded Lace Unlined Underwire Bra ($40, originally $60)
There's nothing hotter than functional lingerie, and this lacy balconette bra from Savage X Fenty looks just as sexy peeking out of a button up or a sheer top in the wild as it does paired with a thong in the bedroom. Reviewers are gushing over the comfort-factor as well as the low-cut cups that still offer plenty of support.
L'Occitane Lavender Foaming Bath ($42)
Baths are infinitely better when quality bubble bath is involved. This sensory-indulging classic from L'Occitane delivers fragrant bubbles that cost a whole lot less than a flight to Provence. The formula is made without parabens, phthalates, or triclosan, and leaves a behind light scent of lavender along with clean, moisturized skin.
Kate McLeod The Sex Stone ($48)
Described as a "sensual massage bar and intimacy oil", this bar glides onto skin to create a silky slip without the need for a bulky bottle on your night stand. It leverages plant-based ingredients like argan oil to add moisture and lubrication during massages and intimate play.
Maude Band ($52)
This vibrating ring gently hugs the penis shaft to deliver stimulation to your partner's feel-good zones (clitoris and perineum, I'm looking at you). It's water-resistant, includes five speeds, has a one-hour run time, and also helps keep erections harder for longer by restricting blood outflow.
Liberator Wedge Intimate Sex Positioning Pillow ($96)
Find the perfect position for deeper penetration and G-spot stimulation with this wedged pillow. The 27-degree angle means you or your partner can lay back and relax without having to uncomfortably strain to hold a position. The cover can easily be removed to wash, and it comes in nine different colors.
Quince 100% Washable Silk Robe ($120)
Slippery smooth and classically chic, this robe is crafted from 100 percent mulberry silk and is temperature-regulating, so it feels as good as it looks. It's the perfect piece to wrap up in after a steamy shower and slip out of once things heat back up. You can grab it in four different colors.
Womanizer Next ($179, originally $229)
Loaded with 14 intensity levels that control everything from air wave depth to speed, this clit stimulator uses pulsating air pressure to create a pleasurable sucking sensation. It's also waterproof, so you can slip it into your bath and shower or the hot tub and pool. Our contributing editor who deals with sensory problems and misophonia isn't a fan of oral sex, but tested (and loved) this toy. For more details, read her Womanizer Next review.
Editor Quote: "The toy latched onto my clit with a touch of lube for better suction, and the autopilot setting, located on the device's interior base, was the closest thing to oral sex (minus the ick sensations) that I've ever felt. The unpredictable vibe and suction patterns guide you on an adventure based on your preferences. The 360-degree sensation feels like gentle but intense sucking and pairs great with penetration. A note that this setting starts off slow, so patience is key." — Naima Karp, PS contributor
— Additional reporting by Angela Elias and Adelaide Giesey
Haley Lyndes is a former shopping writer and editor with more than seven years of experience in the publishing space. Specializing in home and lifestyle, she covered everything from furniture and mattresses to beauty products and fitness gear. Her writing has appeared in BuzzFeed, Travel + Leisure, and Real Simple.
Angela Elias (she/her) is a former contributing editor for PS Shopping, where she reviewed everything from beauty products to kitchen gadgets, curated can't-miss sales, and created "best of" shopping roundups. Previously, she led the relaunch of Popsugar's Latine identity and family-focused verticals, directed its Home vertical, and hosted shopping segments. She has nearly 15 years of experience working in the lifestyle space as a writer, editor, content strategist, director, on-camera talent, and publicist.
Adelaide Giesey (she/her) is a shopping writer at Popsugar. With over seven years of industry experience, she is an expert in all things beauty and enjoys writing across fashion and lifestyle categories. Prior to PS, she helped shape the beauty verticals at Byrdie, Coveteur, and InStyle.
