Why to Wait Between Having Kids

You Can Actually (Gasp!) Take a Shower

Leaving a young toddler and a newborn alone together? Recipe for disaster. Leaving a little kid and their new sibling alone together while you leave the room for a few? Should be A-OK — at least for five minutes.

Source: Flickr user sean dreilinger

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You'll Really Get to Know Your Older Child

That one-on-one time is priceless.

Source: Flickr user Fadzly Mubin

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The Older Sibling Understands What's Happening

Because let's face it, no 10-month-old is going to understand that they're going to be a big brother or sister.

Source: Flickr user Ben Grey

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The Little One Gets a Built-In Teacher

And homework helper, soccer coach, and advice provider.

Source: Flickr user Luc De Leeuw

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The Older Kid Gets a Protégé (or Two)

What better way to build a child's self-confidence than by having a younger sibling who looks up to them?

Source: Flickr user Patrick

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Your Kids Have Time to Establish Their Own Identities

Your younger child won't just be known as "Johnny's little brother" at school, and spreading them out a bit prevents direct competition in academics or their other endeavors.

Source: Flickr user Giuseppe Moscato

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It Gives Mom Some Time to Recoup For Round Two

Pregnancy takes its toll on a woman's body. Taking a few years off in between kids gives you some time to get back into shape and feel ready for round two.

Source: Flickr user Ed Yourdan

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Four Words

No double stroller required.

Source: Flickr user clappstar

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