A Guide to Setting Grandparent Boundaries

If you thought dividing holidays was difficult as newlyweds, wait until there is a baby in the picture. Unless both sets live within a reasonable driving distance of each other, chances are only one will see baby that day. Sit down with your spouse to discuss your plan, and gently share them with the grandparents. Do, however, try to find a way to see them close to the holiday so they can still celebrate.