Popsugar Family Parenting Things You Shouldn't Say to Same-Sex Couples 9 Things You Should Never Say to Same-Sex Parents November 21, 2016 by Leah Rocketto View On One Page Photo 1 of 9 ADVERTISEMENT () Start Slideshow Share This Link Copy ← Use Arrow Keys → 1 Which one of you is the mother/father? Seeing as women can't be dads and men can't be moms, I think that answers your question. Source: Lifetime Previous Next Start Slideshow ParentingMarriageFamily Self-CareCouplesOut Loud