Popsugar Family Parenting Things Not to Say to Adoptive Parents 15 Things Adoptive Parents Don't Want to Hear July 5, 2015 by Leah Rocketto View On One Page Photo 2 of 15 ADVERTISEMENT () Start Slideshow Share This Link Copy ← Use Arrow Keys → 2 Why did the mother give her up? Believe it or not, that is not your business. Source: ABC Previous Next Start Slideshow ParentingFamily Self-CareGifsAdoption