Popsugar Family Parenting Things Not to Say to Adoptive Parents 15 Things Adoptive Parents Don't Want to Hear July 5, 2015 by Leah Rocketto View On One Page Photo 15 of 15 ADVERTISEMENT () Start Slideshow Share This Link Copy ← Use Arrow Keys → 15 You wouldn't understand. You're not a real mom. If showering a child with love and taking care of their every need doesn't make you a real mom, then you're right. But I'm still a mom! Source: FX Previous Next Start Slideshow ParentingFamily Self-CareGifsAdoption