So, you still have 10, maybe 20 pounds (OK, 27 . . . 30 pounds) to go to your goal weight. As important as your physical health is, being consumed with frustration that you don’t look a certain way, post-kids, is certainly harmful to your mental health. Whether you’ve got scars and stretch marks, saggy boobs, or a serious need to go back in time to do daily Kegel exercises, it’s important to realize the things you can control when it comes to your body — and the things you can’t. Do your best to set manageable weight loss goals that fit into your lifestyle, but if this year, with two kids under 2, you just don’t have time to go to the gym twice a week, accept that.
