15 Self-Care Gifts to Give to Your Stressed-Out Mom Friends

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Here's a piece of absolutely brand new information that you probably don't already know: moms actually have one of the most stressful jobs in existence.

OK, OK. That's a lie: we all know this, and most of us live the chaotic reality daily.

However, despite acknowledging this fact, we don't all take the time to care for ourselves amid the disorder of day-to-day life as parents. If you know a mom in your life that could stand to take a few extra moments for herself in 2018 to practice self-care (or maybe you're that mom!), there's no better time than the holidays to gift her with her own little self-care kit. Purchase one of these items on its own, or create a basket with a bunch of the products to be the friend that gives mom the gift of relaxation this holiday season and beyond.

An Essential Oil Candle

An Essential Oil Candle

There's nothing more relaxing than having a few candles burning, especially if they contain essential oils like this Oojra Eucalyptus Scented Luxury Candle ($35).

Mommy's Time Out Wine Tumbler

Mommy's Time Out Wine Tumbler

Whether you pair this Mommy's Time Out Wine Tumbler ($15) with a bottle of wine or not, you're giving her the gift of a reminder: every time she opens the cabinet to grab a sippy cup or "the green plate" for her child, she'll remember that wine o'clock is just around the corner and will begin to unwind just at the thought (plus, the lid means no kiddo tantrum is going to spill even a sip of her wine if she decides to pour some before bedtime).

ProPlants Sansevieria "Breathe Happier" Plant

ProPlants Sansevieria "Breathe Happier" Plant

ProPlants's Sansevieria Plant ($30) from its "Breathe Happier" collection can be delivered right to mom's door in this chic gold and gray planter. The easy-to-care-for plant works to purify the air in her family's home to literally help her breathe easier.

InnoGear Essential Oil Diffuser

InnoGear Essential Oil Diffuser

This InnoGear Essential Oil Diffuser ($22) can be used with any of her favorite oils (see our favorite set below) to help her breath in deeply whenever she needs to take a minute to clear her head (and exhale negativity).

Vitruvi Essential Oils

Vitruvi Essential Oils

Vitruvi's Essential Oils ($24 each) are the perfect oils to drip into the diffuser when mom feels like she needs to recharge her batteries (and her sanity).

A Calming Bath Bomb
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A Calming Bath Bomb

A bag full of calming bath bombs, like Lush's The Big Sleep ($9 each), are the perfect gift that will keep on giving. Not only will one of these bombs full of mind-calming essential oils give mom a relaxing bath experience, the oils will keep her skin silky smooth long after the water has drained and someone starts screaming "Mom!" again.

Gratitude Jar

Gratitude Jar

Sometimes all a person needs is to hear that they're valued and that someone is grateful for all that they do. With this Gratitude Jar ($12) (a similar jar, now sold out, is one of Oprah's favorite things this year!) Mom can either use the jar for herself, taking note of little things in her day that she's grateful for, or she can turn it on her family, and have her partner or kids write notes about the things she does for them that they're all thankful for. Either way, reading each thing back when the stress hits will remind her to take a minute and appreciate the little moments.

Not Pot CBD Chocolate Hearts

Not Pot CBD Chocolate Hearts

With Not Pot CBD Chocolate Hearts ($30) mom can indulge in her sweet tooth while taking the edge off. Containing "a calming combination of CBD-rich hemp oil, mood-boosting raw cacao, and ashwagandha," these low-dose chocolate hearts will help mom feel a bit more relaxed day to day.

Dr. Jart+ Brightening Infusion Hydrogel Mask

Dr. Jart+ Brightening Infusion Hydrogel Mask

Dr. Jart+'s Brightening Infusion Hydrogel Mask ($8) will give mom brighter-looking skin to help deliver the illusion that she's well-rested and put-together, even when she's not.

Kusmi Be Cool Tea

Kusmi Be Cool Tea

Kusmi's Be Cool Tea ($17) is perfect for the busy mom who loves a hot (or iced, if the idea of getting to a drink while it's still hot is laughable) cup of tea any time of day. Its ingredients will have detoxifying and relaxing effects on her body so she can "be cool."

Lavender Hand Lotion

Lavender Hand Lotion

Keeping Lavender Hand Lotion ($15) on her night table will ensure she has some semblance of calm right before bed (and when she's ripped out of sleep by a toddler creepily standing next to her bed in the middle of the night).

A Plush Throw Blanket

A Plush Throw Blanket

It's no surprise that a soft, heavy Faux Fur Throw Blanket ($119, originally $149) will provide a sense of calm during the moments she's able to take a breather on the couch while the kids are playing or while she's binging Netflix post bedtime routine.

Gaiam Relax Restorative Eye Pillow

Gaiam Relax Restorative Eye Pillow

Whether she's a yogi or not, the Gaiam Relax Restorative Eye Pillow ($10), a satin-covered eye pillow filled with lavender scent, will help her to relieve tension and stress.

Headspace Meditation App

Headspace Meditation App

Although the Headspace Meditation App is completely free, you can gift your stressed-out mama friend with the knowledge that this app exists (along with any of these other gifts, if you're looking to spend some cash on her as well!). With the app, mom can learn to meditate and practice mindfulness by sparing just a few minutes each day to go through its exercises.

UGG Scuffette Slippers

UGG Scuffette Slippers

Although it may seem like such a small thing to give a cozy pair of slippers, sliding these UGG Scuffette Slippers ($85) onto her feet after a long day will feel luxurious and relaxing (or at least make running around the house after her kids feel more like running on a cloud).