The Best Valentine's Day Gifts For Him and Her
The Best Valentine’s Day Gifts, From "Heated Rivalry" Finds to Hailey Bieber Lingerie
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When Valentine's Day is done right, there's a noticeable lightness to it. You've planned ahead, found the perfect gift, and you're genuinely excited to celebrate. It's preparation over procrastination — and it shows. But when the holiday creeps up with no gift ideas in sight for the person you love, that ease quickly turns into anxiety. Suddenly, you're rushing through the grocery store, clutching last-minute flowers, hoping no one can tell how unplanned it all feels. We've all been there, and it's never ideal.
That's why we've curated the best Valentine's Day gifts for everyone. Because finding a thoughtful gift isn't just a challenge reserved for your partner; you're likely tasked with the exact same conundrum.
In This Post
- The Best Valentine's Day Gifts For Women
- The Best Valentine's Day Gifts For Men
- The Best Gender Neutral Valentine's Day Gifts
Our Favorite Valentine's Day Gifts:
- "Heated Rivalry" underwear: Uniqlo Airism Boxer Briefs at $15
- Water-resistant fanny pack: PS by Popsugar Waist Pack at $17
- For elevating the mood: Camino Sparkling Pear 'Social' 2mg CBD Gummies at $32, originally $35
- For a cozy Valentine's Day: PS by Popsugar Mellow Jogger at $35
- A soft, buttery sleep set: Vineyard Vines Super-Soft Knit Pajama Set at $50, originally $150
- A trendy casual tee: Grateful Dead x Vineyard Vines USA Long-Sleeve Pocket Tee at $59
- A plaid lounge essential: L.L Bean Scotch Plaid Flannel Sleep Pants at $60
- For the matcha-lover: Rishi Tea Barista Matcha at $65
- Hailey Bieber-approved lingerie: Victoria's Secret Wicked Hearts & Roses Embroidery Unlined Balconette Bra at $75
- The perfect vintage-inspired baby tee: Sene Studio Cumulus 90's Baby Tee at $78
- Slip-on stylish shoes: Hey Dude Paul Shoe at $80
- A warm, subtle fragrance: Glossier "You" Perfume at $82
- A celebrity-approved sleep mask: Slip x Skims Contour Sleep Mask at $96
- A fresh, masculine scent: Bleu De Chanel Eau de Toilette Cologne at $115-$180
- The purse endorsed by Charli XCX: Stand Oil Breezy Bag at $135
- Award-winning pleasure device: Lelo Sona 3 Cruise Clitoral Stimulator at $137, originally $179
- An ultra-cozy blanket: Lola Blanket in Desert Dune at $275
The Best Valentine's Day Gifts For Women
Vineyard Vines Super-Soft Knit Pajama Set ($50, originally $128)
When it comes to gifting, it's easy to assume that bigger budgets mean better gifts. But between you and me, a great deal never hurts. This pajama set is just as comfortable, stretchy, and buttery-soft as some of the most sought-after sleepwear brands — and it's currently on sale. Plus, it's Vineyard Vines, so no one would ever guess it comes in under $75. It's the kind of gift she'll reach for again and again.
Victoria's Secret Wicked Hearts and Roses Embroidery Unlined Balconette Bra ($75)
Chances are your partner highly respects Hailey Bieber's fashion choices, so why not get her this luxe Valentine's Day embroidered heart lingerie bra? Bieber looks stunning in it, and your partner will, too. It's a sultry little gesture you both can enjoy. Watch our shopping director Sarah Wasilak try it herself.
Editor Quote: "The thing about this set that I'm not sure if a picture can capture is just how beautiful it is. The stitching is well thought-out and the embroidery is gorgeous. I feel like a princess every time I put it on and it instantly gives me a boost of confidence." — Haley Lyndes, shopping staff writer
Sene Studio Cumulus 90's Baby Tee ($78)
Peloton instructor Emma Lovewell teamed up with Sene Studio on a collection of optimal '90s basics, and there will never be a time when she doesn't thank you for gifting her a fresh, white vintage tee like this one. It comes in the perfect pre-shrunken crop, and it's luxuriously soft. She'll grab it to wear with everything from jeans to sweats.
Glossier "You" Perfume ($82)
Glossier You is one of those gender neutral perfumes that just works. It's soft, warm, and a little musky, with notes of pink pepper and iris that melt into your skin and smell slightly different on everyone. It's not overpowering or "too much" — just your natural scent, but better. Basically, it's an easy Valentine's Day gift they'll actually wear on repeat.
Slip x Skims Contour Sleep Mask ($96)
This isn't your average sleep mask — celebrities like Ashley Tisdale, Rita Ora, and Shea McGee can't get enough of its soft, luxe feel and clever design, complete with eye indents that won't mess up lashes or cause any discomfort. And for Valentine's Day, Slip teamed up with Skims on this limited edition, iconic style that's as cute as it is comfy. Read our Slip Sleep Mask review for more.
Editor Quote: "The silky fabric feels soft to the touch and it is thick enough to stop any light from piercing through." — Shelcy Joeseph, former contributing editor
Lelo Sona 3 Cruise Clitoral Stimulator ($137, originally $179)
This one won the Best Vibrator category in our Feel-Good Awards for a reason — it's orgasmic. With 10 speed and intensity settings, plus the ability to connect to and be controlled via an app, it's perfect for a relaxing evening alone or with a plus one. Right now, Lelo is offering up to 50 percent off for Valentine's Day, including its popular rabbit vibrator. Use code LOVERVIBES at checkout.
The Best Valentine's Day Gifts For Men
Uniqlo Airism Boxer Briefs ($15)
These aren't just any run-of-the-mill boxer briefs, they're the same Airism briefs Shane Hollander (Hudson Williams) and Ilya Rozanov (Connor Storrie) wear in "Heated Rivalry." We confirmed with the Uniqlo team that costume designer Hanna Puley did, in fact, use the brand's underwear on the show — and honestly, we think it would make the perfect Valentine's Day gift for the man in your life.
Grateful Dead x Vineyard Vines USA Long-Sleeve Pocket Tee ($59)
Even if your partner isn't a die-hard Grateful Dead fan, you have to admit the logo itself is seriously trendy. Either way, were loving this Grateful Dead x Vineyard Vines long-sleeved T-shirt. It's especially great to wear to any concerts coming up.
L.L. Bean Scotch Plaid Flannel Sleep Pants ($60)
These cozy Scotch Plaid Flannel Sleep Pants are basically a hug in pant form. Soft, warm, and comfy enough for lounging, napping, or Netflix binges; they're the kind of gift he'll actually wear (and love) this Valentine's Day.
Hey Dude Paul Shoe ($80)
We know the jury's still out on whether Hey Dude shoes are stylish, but I personally think guys can rock them. The men in my life love how comfy and easy they are to slip on, and this pair is extra fashionable thanks to the herringbone-patterned lining that adds a little extra pizazz.
Chanel Bleu De Chanel Eau de Toilette Cologne ($115-$180)
Because your next Nordstrom trip doesn't have to be solely about you — you can grab a little something special for your man, too. This cologne is effortlessly cool. It opens with bright grapefruit and lemon notes, warms up with a touch of ginger and nutmeg, and finishes with cedar, sandalwood, and a hint of incense. It smells fresh, clean, and masculine without trying too hard; which is exactly why I love it.
The Best Gender Neutral Valentine's Day Gifts
PS by Popsugar Adjustable Waist Pack ($17)
Roses are red, snow is white, keep your hands free and your essentials tight. Our PS by Popsugar zippered fanny pack in a fun Valentine's colorway is perfect for life on the go, and it's water-resistant just in case the weather gets dramatic.
Camino Sparkling Pear 'Social' 2mg CBD Gummies ($32, originally $35)
Skip the chocolates this year and elevate your vibe instead. These Social Gummies are perfect for a little self-love or sharing with your Valentine. Each full-size tin contains 2 mg THC and 6 mg CBD for the ideal balance. Use code POP20 for 20 percent off your first order.
PS by Popsugar Mellow Jogger ($35)
This Valentine's, treat yourself (or your Valentine) to joggers that are equal parts cozy and cute. Super soft, with pockets perfect for hands, snacks, or a secret chocolate, these may make your old leggings jealous.
Rishi Tea Barista Matcha ($65 for 50+ servings)
Give the gift of bold, balanced flavor this Valentine's Day with Rishi Tea Barista Matcha. It's made from organic first and second harvest leaves, so you get the sweet, delicate notes of the youngest leaves and the bold, rich flavor of the later ones. Perfect for lattes, baking, or just hanging solo, it's a little luxe treat for someone you love.
Stand Oil Breezy Bag ($135)
Charli XCX was spotted rocking this bag at Sundance Film Festival, and honestly, it stole the show. The smooth, glossy faux leather, slouchy silhouette, zip closure, and adjustable crossbody strap all make it effortlessly cool. Plus, the size is perfect for your Kindle, lip gloss, umbrella, and more. If your significant other has been hinting for a new bag, this one's a must.
Editor Quote: "Charli XCX may have sold me on this bag, but now that I own it, I'm here to sell it to you — it's worth every penny. As an editor, I'm always lugging my laptop around for the next story, and this bag handles it like a pro. Stylish, functional, and the color goes with basically everything. And honestly? For a bag this good, the price is a steal." — Haley Lyndes, shopping staff writer
Lola Blanket in Desert Dune ($275)
There's a reason celebrities like Selena Gomez, Kourtney Kardashian, and Alix Earle can't stop raving about Lola Blankets; they're that comfortable. Available in everything from baby and travel sizes to extra-large, there's one to fit the bed, couch, or even carry-on bag. Cozy enough for anyone, this is a gift you know they'll actually use.
Editor Quote: "Dare I say this is the most comfortable blanket I've ever curled up in? And yes, I went there. It's so buttery soft that I actually look forward to slamming my laptop shut, changing into pajamas, and cocooning myself until bedtime. And even then, I drag it in with me." — Haley Lyndes, shopping staff writer
Haley Lyndes is a shopping writer and editor with more than seven years of experience in the publishing space. Specializing in home and lifestyle, she covers everything from furniture and mattresses to beauty products and fitness gear. Her writing has appeared in BuzzFeed, Travel + Leisure, and Real Simple.
