Popsugar Family Relationships Reasons You're Not Having Sex With Your Spouse 14 Reasons You're Not Having Sex With Your Spouse (and How to Fix It) June 14, 2018 by Laura Lifshitz View On One Page Photo 13 of 14 ADVERTISEMENT () Start Slideshow Share This Link Copy ← Use Arrow Keys → 13 An Issue With One of Your Kids If the family is having trouble due to one child struggling mentally or physically, it can be draining to think of sex among everything else. Tips: Therapy for both of you. A talk on how the situation is impacting your marriage and sex life together. Patience and taking time out for each other. Previous Next Start Slideshow RelationshipsMarriageSexAdvice