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Instead of: Stop saying "No!"

Try this: I hear you saying "No." I understand you do not want this. Let's figure out what we can do differently.

By acknowledging your child's "No," you are de-escalating the situation. Rather than arguing yes/no, change the script to focus on the future and the prospect of a solution.

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