We play to our strengths.
I like to incorporate learning and structure into our son's activities. My husband is an active guy with more of a spur-of-the-moment personality. Thus, I tend to do the "learning stuff" with our son while my husband plays with him at the park or takes him swimming. We both get to do what we like and feel that we're good at, and our son benefits from both the interactive learning activities as well as fresh air and exercise.