Ever had to actually leave a party because someone destroyed you in a game of beer pong? Yeah, me neither . . . If that does sound like you, you most definitely know that you're way too competitive in nature. But I'm probably more competitive than you are. (See? It's a real problem.) Though your "superdriven spirit" has its advantages, you probably also know of the many struggles it comes with. It's hard to have fun when all you can think about is winning — even when it's not a competition. See 14 things ahead that only overly competitive people will understand.