14 Reasons You're Not Having Sex With Your Spouse (and How to Fix It)

When one partner takes all the childcare load and the littles only want one of the two parents, this can dampen the sex life.

Tips:

• If you're carrying all the work, it's time to start handing over control to your partner to divvy up the care.
• If your partner isn't willing, tell him or her that this is what is affecting your sex life and ask if he or she is willing to change.
• If your partner takes over some of the load, you'll feel less infringed upon and want more time for intimacy.