Benefits to Being in a Relationship in Your 20s
26 Perks of Being in a Serious Relationship in Your 20s
Young, independent, and . . . committed? Yep, you heard that right. This is a declaration for anyone who is in a long-term relationship in their 20s and has felt pressure to "see what else is out there." Some people think that being in a relationship in your 20s makes no sense at all. They assume you're wasting away your youth; however, I couldn't disagree more.
I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years. Since we've been together, I have studied abroad, have lived alone, and still go out and have fun with my girlfriends. As a couple, we've traveled around Southeast Asia, gone to music festivals, and lived life like every other 20-something — we just happen to be in a relationship. I have a sense of stability that allows me to focus on my career rather than wasting energy worrying about if that guy will text me back or if I'll ever fall in love.
Some of the most self-sufficient and motivated women I know happen to be in committed relationships as well. I asked them to share all the reasons they love having a significant other and compiled a list of perks.
1 Best of Both Worlds
2 It Takes a Weight Off Your Shoulders
3 You Get to Change for the Better, Together
4 Relationship Life > Fling Life
5 It's Like Having a Personal Cheerleader 24/7
6 Your Family Won't Constantly Bug You to See If You're Dating
7 Wisdom Beyond Your Years
8 They Catch You When You Fall
9 Loneliness Is a Thing of The Past
10 You Can Forget About Modern Dating Woes
11 Monogamy Equals Reduced Risk of STDs
12 Their Presence Is Comforting
13 You're in This Together
14 The Pressure Is Off
15 They Make You Feel Safe
16 All Wrapped Into One
17 You Don't Have to Stress About a Plus-One
18 A Constant Confidence Boost
19 You Don't Have to Juggle Dating and Your Career
20 Marriage Training Wheels
21 Boring Errands Are a Thing of the Past
22 Someone to Lean On
23 You Can Stay in Without Feeling the Pressure to Go Out
24 A Motivation Buddy
25 You Know You're Blessed
26 They Love You For Who You Are