5 Rules For Dating When You Want a Serious Relationship

If your chemistry is off the charts, go for it. But even then, you may want to consider holding out in the intimacy department, at least for a couple dates. By delaying things, you'll get a better sense of whether he or she is in it just for the sex. If they're willing to wait, it shows that they're potentially a good candidate for the long run.

Don't blindside your date months later with the knowledge that that you're looking for something serious. Discuss what you both want out of the relationship from the start so that you're aware of where they stand also. You don't want to be disappointed when you find out they're not on the same page.

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If you really want a serious relationship, don't force it. The more you actively look, the less success you'll have. Make connections organically and see where they develop instead of pursuing every single candidate you meet.

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When has moving too quickly ever ended well? Not rushing will allow an authentic relationship to form and ultimately allow you to determine whether or not this person is really right for you.

Playing the field will forever keep your relationship at the most casual level. Unless you keep it a secret (which is shady and not recommended), he or she will assume that it's also OK for them to see what's out there. Set the tone by keeping flings to a minimum, and if they're not a fit, move on to the next!