If you're about to head out on your first date after a divorce, it might feel like jumping into the deep end without a swimming lesson. The good news is you won't actually drown, and you will be absolutely fine. Remember that everyone is nervous on a first date, whether he or she is divorced or not. First dates are anxiety inducing for just about everyone, and you're not the first person to go through a divorce and feel nervous once you're ready to dip your toes back into the dating pool.
The reality is you have to start somewhere, so whether you end up having chemistry with your date or not, look at it as a learning experience and try to enjoy it! Dating is supposed to be fun. It's about meeting and mingling with different people and learning about the way someone else views the world. Instead of fretting over whether this person will be "the one," just focus on this person being "the fun" you need to have for that day or evening. And maybe — just maybe — that first date will turn into a second one.
With this positive attitude, take along with you these 13 tips on what to talk about on your first date after a divorce, so you can keep that good energy rolling . . .