Day 1: Will We Fight During the Move and Say “Forget It”?
There will absolutely be moments of frustration during the move. It didn't take my boyfriend and I longer than five minutes to get into a fight the morning we left home. We got a call that the couch couldn't be delivered during the window we had requested. But after playing the blame game for 10 seconds, we realized this was nobody's fault but the lady on the phone at the furniture store, who promised us everything was running on schedule.
Here's the thing: building furniture is hard, moving heavy things is hard (see: Ross on Friends), and there will be brief moments of panic. But you're both in this together. You wouldn't be stressing and sweating if you both weren't just trying to build a happy home. That "forget it" thing? Not an option. I was over this by the end of the first night.